Knowing wrote:密斯张三 wrote:but not now?
Nah, not that easy any more. Didn't you read the forbes online article? Career women make horrible wives! They don't cook, don't want to have kids; they are more grumpy, and they cheat too!
Poor men...Mojority of them can't afford a fulltime house wife any more, but look like they will be screwed to marry to a wife who has a job too.
http://www.fabvalley.org/bbs/viewtopic.php?t=2097
oh that. i thought you were talking about sth... well, nastier.
career women are bad wives of course. but "homemakers" are not any easier to handle. another Carolyn Hax column:
Dear Carolyn: Maybe you can help me out with my problem. I recently became a new father/husband and am having problems adapting to my new lifestyle. I'm 27 and my wife is 24. Ever since we've been married we constantly argue over my ''bad'' habits of going to see my friends after I get out of work. My wife stays at home and cares for our daughter while I work all day. For me an hour or two of hanging out is refreshing and what I need after a long day before I can go home and begin my responsibilities of being a father. My wife doesn't seem to agree. She feels jealous because my friends are the first people I want to see when I get off work. I feel like when I come straight home I work a 12-hour day because I have to cook (she can't cook) and give her a break from caring for our baby. I understand she's also working by caring for our child but gimme a break! I can't go out to the mall or go shopping when I work or take two naps during my workday! Is there anything I can do to make her understand I need my time besides arguing and making us resent each other?
- Breaking the Girl
Dear Breaking: Oh my goodness. After nine or so hours away from your family at work, you then spend another hour or two away from your family? Because it's ''refreshing''?
I am going to resist screaming and tearing my hair out because you're here, I have your attention, and you're asking, and I don't want to scare you away. But, dude. You're not single anymore, and you're not childless anymore, and so you are no longer at the top of your list of people whose needs you must tend to. This is a fundamental truth that you need to accept, right now.
At the top of the list is your little girl. She needs a daddy on weekdays as badly as she needs one on weekends. When you are out of the house for 10, 11, 12 hours, she does not have a daddy on weekdays.
Next on the list is your wife's name, right next to yours. She needs your companionship, your attention, your support. She doesn't need a husband who needs a couple of belts with his buddies just to face coming home to her. And she doesn't need to have her life dismissed as easier than yours, when she is ''on'' 24 hours a day with the baby, and likely isolated as hell.
Yes, you need your time, too. Once a week with your friends. And she needs a night off, too, once a week with her friends.
And if any of this isn't penetrating - actually, even if it is - please arrange, this weekend, to watch your daughter, solo, for at least 10 hours straight. Then write back to me and report what it was like.
But it is not a must, my current cleaning lady is quite good.
It was not even a luxury.
，不过至少good female made food的主动权掌握在你自己手里，如果怀着卧薪尝胆的决心，成功的可能性很大！
一张帖子涵盖了恶人谷最常讨论的数个话题，白博如果再来引申几个地铁故事或者白鼠故事就快全了。
