希拉里锁定党内总统候选人提名

笑嘻嘻 · Post by **笑嘻嘻** » 2016-11-09 2:06

我投妹妹。

Elysees · Post by **Elysees** » 2016-11-09 2:08

告诉妹妹我们都会在，会投她，我也会教育安宁一定投她。
明天简直想请假不上班，没勇气去公司。今天同事互相道别的时候还跟我说，I'm not worried at all。
而且简直不知明早安宝起床怎么跟他说。

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 2:16

哎，现在我的确更尊敬希拉里了。先行者太不容易了。我想翻页，社会还没有翻页呢。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 2:38

出上班吧，大家扎堆取暖。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 5:09

我在脸书上属于‘秘密’小组Pantsuit Nation。昨天这还是一个充满希望鼓励投票大家晒投票照片的地方，我被加进去的时候开心的看到好些朋友已经在里面了，今天就成了疗伤组。

有人说请大家给希拉里写信表示安慰和支持, 相信她需要听到支持者的声音.

Hillary for America
Post Office Box 5256
New York, NY 10185-5256

不少妇女上来控诉丈夫是川普支持者,气得离家出走. 有人控诉自己在红州红县,帖子底下许多人共情.

也有人坚毅的表示绝不搬家逃跑,绝不耻于做美国人,必须继续斗争. 黑暗的地方才需要灯光.

We will not move away. We will not be ashamed to be Americans. We will fight. Half of our country voted with us. And the half who didn't were scared to death. Scared of terrorism and poverty and change. Scared of letting a woman hold power. Racism is fear. Homophobia is fear. Misogyny is fear. It's awful to live in that much fear. Fear makes you do terrible things. Donald Trump ran on the Music Man's platform. "We got trouble! Right here in River City!" Fear sells. But Love Wins. Eight years of Obama have allowed us complacency. We no longer have that privilege. We will stay. We will get up. We will help where help is needed. We will offer money and a helping hand anywhere we can. We will hold our daughters and sons close. We will tell them we love them and that sometimes, life is painfully despairingly disappointing. But we survive. We fight. We love. Where walls are built, we help people climb them or knock them down. We are Harry Potter and Ron and Hermione. Voldemort doesn't win. He doesn't win because when it gets dark, we bring the light.

有人晒出自己穿pantsuit 去上班的照片

I was going to call in sick today. Because I am literally sick to my stomach about the state of America. I am a woman, I am black and I am a recent immigrant. I am what it appears America doesn't want. But I decided to rock my modern day pant suit and get to work not only for Hillary but for all the women who came before me! I am still with her and ready to work for a new America!

以后再也不嘲笑上网向陌生人找安慰的人了. 我们都会在人生某个时刻需要知道自己不是孤单的一小团.

tiffany · Post by **tiffany** » 2016-11-09 5:13

这届人民太让人失望了。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 6:43

人民里还分哪。选票总数是希拉里多一点。

Jun · Post by **Jun** » 2016-11-09 7:37

Let's not kid ourselves. 所有的少数族裔，包括亚裔，都主要投给民主党；所以共和党的胜利完全是白人的胜利。It's racial revenge. 也不用装了，什么经济、贸易、工厂，等等，都是借口。It's a number's game. 多数就可以暴政。To be honest, I don't think the racial relations in America has improved noticeably in the past 24 years I've been here, despite electing a black president, twice. On the ground, it might be even worse than 1993.

George W. Bush's second victory was driven by fear. Trump's victory is driven by hate. People don't like to talk about it, but it's true. Hate is an extremely powerful motivation. It would be interesting to see how white people will govern the country now, because it's not like the oligarchs will share the wealth with people who have voted for them.

下面第一个要崩的就是 European Union.

这儿没人要堕胎吧？要堕赶紧堕，过了年就是违法犯罪了哈。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 8:22

这有什么关系，谁是昨天出生的，白男统治了那么多年，黑男当了八年总统你就都忘了么？坐下来哭完抹抹眼泪，站起来接着作斗争，谁说输掉一场战役就是输掉了整个战争？从一百多年前妇女争取选举权起，哪个先烈是一受挫折就躺倒等死的？全美选希拉里的人比选川普的多二十万人，难道这些人里一个白男都没有？八年前希拉里说:"虽然没能打破这个玻璃天花板, 多谢你们,它多了一千八百万条裂缝!" 现在它又多了五千九百万条裂缝! 这是因为希拉里没有躺倒不干. 如果她都没有躺下去，我们也不能躺下去。如果她筋疲力尽，我们更应该接着火炬跑下去！

CAVA · Post by **CAVA** » 2016-11-09 8:36

目前大家还在trauma中，但斗争不会停止的，不进则退。当年争取妇女选举权也花了很久时间。

Jun · Post by **Jun** » 2016-11-09 8:38

Hmm... 我觉得我还是跑到加拿大去给美国女同胞做拉拉队得了。前两天你们都在笑我老说加拿大，我就是喜欢加拿大。

世界变化快么？表面上是，但内核却很慢。

vp2002 · Post by **vp2002** » 2016-11-09 8:42

Knowing 真是永远的cheerleader. 在这令人失望的日子里，作为长年潜水难得冒出来一次的潜力员，觉得有你们真好

tiffany · Post by **tiffany** » 2016-11-09 8:46

不笑就只能哭，不斗就只能被踩。总是要微笑着斗争的。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 8:46

今天看到的另一句话，嚷嚷要搬加拿大的人，别！你们都搬到俄亥俄，宾夕法尼亚，佛罗里达去吧！

我们有比堕胎更多的权力，我们可以工作，可以受教育，可以投票，可以捐款，可以参加政治组织。我要花更多时间MENTOR 年轻女孩的事业道路，我要花更多时间发展事业认真考虑转型，让小绿看到一个喜欢自己工作的妈妈而不是为了钱工作的妈妈。我还要花更多时间结交同样进取的女性朋友，让小绿看到周围有很多积极的榜样。历年结交的女友，因为大家都频繁搬家联系不那么紧密，今天又深深的沟通了。有那么多独立进取能干的女友，我觉得并不孤独，非常幸运。

Elysees · Post by **Elysees** » 2016-11-09 9:27

我起床了，哭了一场，这就去找pantsuit

lyra · Post by **lyra** » 2016-11-09 9:42

没人认识的潜水员进来谢谢你们的长贴,让我能有理有据的尽量说服影响身边的人.同时处于深蓝区被绑架的感觉的时候,觉得不孤单.另外,不少深蓝区的白男是支持希拉里的,可惜的确是受教育程度高的人群.

vivi · Post by **vivi** » 2016-11-09 9:50

三德斯怎么可能赢呢？美国人民连个摩门都不选，怎么会选个极左的犹太人呢？！

futurehope14 · Post by **futurehope14** » 2016-11-09 9:57

今天终于能哭出来了。
擦干眼泪，现在能做的就是好好工作，完善自己，争取以后能换地方。

vivi · Post by **vivi** » 2016-11-09 9:59

Did Hillary win the popular vote? I would feel better if she did!

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 10:06

美国人民不是一个整体，是分裂对立的群体，极左极右互相激发，极端派更有号召力。

我不得不说这次精英阶层轻敌了。民主党的确做了很多不得人心的事，而且对分化下落的下中产阶级的民生不够关心。很多传统民主党阵营比如工会和华人感到被背叛被直接忽视，愤而造反。虽然反感极左不该去投极右，但是在两党制的政治体制和选举人制度下，很少选择。哎希拉里说要努力废选举人制度，现在泡影了。

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 10:07

vivi wrote:Did Hillary win the popular vote? I would feel better if she did!

即使是，比戈尔还少。克林顿真是民主党的大包袱。

不和他划清界限就没好事。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 10:08

票还没数完。上次我看的时候是克林顿多二十万票。
选举人票制度有它的合理之处，不然人口少的州太吃亏，联邦制维持不下去。这我倒不是特别怨恨。HRC民调领先四五个百分点，怎么都不应该输掉选举人票，除了bradley effect 无法解释，太体现女性头上那个玻璃天花板了。

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 10:17

我坍塌得不想去上班。可是有个postmortem会。不是我直接责任，但是是我的摊子，负连带责任。必须去。

四周看看一个女的都没有，开个行业年会，女生比例1:50. 全场穿裙子的只有我一个。为了这个我也要穿裙子去上班，不需要扮成男的，捏紧拳头说。

我现在没有女同事，以前有的都一个个辞职回家或者换容易的工作了。不得不说，这种环境下坚持工作和换容易工作的，和支持谁有相当大的相关性。

Knowing · Post by **Knowing** » 2016-11-09 10:24

我周围的男性也相当震惊失望，但是跟我的伤心是不一样的。我们共勉吧，每个工作女性都有砸玻璃天花板的责任，不然还等男人来替我们砸么。

bifurworm · Post by **bifurworm** » 2016-11-09 10:40

Knowing wrote:今天看到的另一句话，嚷嚷要搬加拿大的人，别！你们都搬到俄亥俄，宾夕法尼亚，佛罗里达去吧！

我们有比堕胎更多的权力，我们可以工作，可以受教育，可以投票，可以捐款，可以参加政治组织。我要花更多时间MENTOR 年轻女孩的事业道路，我要花更多时间发展事业认真考虑转型，让小绿看到一个喜欢自己工作的妈妈而不是为了钱工作的妈妈。我还要花更多时间结交同样进取的女性朋友，让小绿看到周围有很多积极的榜样。历年结交的女友，因为大家都频繁搬家联系不那么紧密，今天又深深的沟通了。有那么多独立进取能干的女友，我觉得并不孤独，非常幸运。

今天真是难过，从来没有这么失望过
谢谢Knowing写的这些，我们自己的天花板，我们自己来砸

futurehope14 · Post by **futurehope14** » 2016-11-09 10:41

她出来了，笑着的。

camellia · Post by **camellia** » 2016-11-09 10:47

有你们真好！

Elysees · Post by **Elysees** » 2016-11-09 10:52

在上班的路上听NPR，一边听一边哭。
听她说到Someday someone will, 太伤心了。

Elysees · Post by **Elysees** » 2016-11-09 10:53

豪情 wrote:我坍塌得不想去上班。可是有个postmoterm会。不是我直接责任，但是是我的摊子，负连带责任。必须去。

四周看看一个女的都没有，开个行业年会，女生比例1:50. 全场穿裙子的只有我一个。为了这个我也要穿裙子去上班，不需要扮成男的，捏紧拳头说。

我现在没有女同事，以前有的都一个个辞职回家或者换容易的工作了。不得不说，这种环境下坚持工作和换容易工作的，和支持谁有相当大的相关性。

给豪情鼓掌！

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 10:57

Knowing wrote:我周围的男性也相当震惊失望，但是跟我的伤心是不一样的。我们共勉吧，每个工作女性都有砸玻璃天花板的责任，不然还等男人来替我们砸么。

湾区现在women in engineering非常活跃，我绝对是受益者。不能说都是靠我自己奋斗。所以更加要团结起来.

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 11:02

Elysees wrote:在上班的路上听NPR，一边听一边哭。
听她说到Someday someone will, 太伤心了。

时也命也，会有人出来的。我担心的是战争。其实这个时候我们应该感谢那些从军的女性。人人选择“适合女性”的工作，放弃责任义务也就放弃了权利。

幻儿 · Post by 幻儿 » 2016-11-09 11:06

今天上班和同事聊起来，才确定很多人都对结果表示震惊伤心。一个资深白男partner说I cried. 另一个资深白男partner，和小布什家有交往的，也表示失望伤心。
打开facebook，一片悲声。一位前同事在上面长文表达悲痛，情深意切。我深有同感，从Brexit到Trump当选，美国不是我以为的那个国家，世界也不是我以为的那个世界。

America is not the country I thought it was. I love my country, for all of its flaws, I think we have it better than anyone else. I still do even tonight. My parents are immigrants from Taiwan, and they always told me that their adopted home was the best place in the world because it believed in freedom, equality and justice. Their parents had fled communist China, where they would have been jailed or worse because their families owned land. In America, they told me that you can be whatever you want – that people are free to pursue their dreams and you can go as far as your abilities, work ethic and, yes, luck will take you. But at least you get the chance. And America was great because it welcomed immigrants, it welcomed them when they had nothing, and it welcomed their children. My parents and I love this country. This is our home.

My dad hung a big American flag outside our garage door every Fourth of July and Memorial Day, and explained to me that America was a force for good in the world, that in the 1950s, the U.S. 7th Fleet prevented communist China from invading Taiwan. My parents were both engineers for aerospace companies with security clearances, developing technologies that were used to defend our country during the Cold War and beyond. They certainly faced racism, but, at its core, America embraced them. My parents were naturalized citizens whose skills and contributions were recognized and valued. They would take us to national parks including Yosemite and Yellowstone when we were young and talk about how amazing our country was and how lucky we were to be American. And they always voted Republican. Hillary Clinton was the first Democrat for president I think they ever voted for. Republicans stood for small government and lower taxes, a strong national defense and conservative cultural values that appeal to many Asian immigrants. On the other hand, Bill Clinton was a disgraceful president that brought shame to the White House and the country. But this year they recognized that Trump and so many of his supporters stood for something else – a vision of America of some idealized, whitewashed world where everyone speaks English, sublimates their culture in favor of Americanism and stops making real Americans uncomfortable.

I always thought growing up that I was an all-American kid, just not in the way that old-timey films like It’s a Wonderful Life imagine. I was born in Southern California, but I didn’t lose my Chinese heritage. My family took off our shoes at home, we visited our grandparents’ graves every year for Chinese New Year (by the way, all four of my grandparents immigrated to the United States and naturalized too, and they are all buried here), my sister and I went to Chinese school on Saturdays and we weren’t allowed to date until college. But I played football at recess, ate afternoon snacks of apple sauce, crinkle cut fries and grilled cheese sandwiches, watched Full House after school and went to prom. I was proud of America’s history – my history. I loved the Constitution, the Declaration of Independence and the Gettysburg address. I loved that we invented the automobile, the airplane, the telephone and the Internet. This was my history. And I felt intense shame that we committed genocide against Native Americans, that we enslaved African-Americans, memorialized it in the Constitution, and then denied them their civil rights for generations, that we interned Japanese-Americans and prohibited Chinese immigration into the United States for over 60 years through the aptly named Chinese Exclusion Act. That was my history, too – because America is my country. I didn’t think that those were acts committed by long-dead white men who I had no connection to. No, I’m an American so my birthright is all of it, the good and the bad.

Trump’s election tells me that my country, my home, is not the place that I thought it was. It means that millions and millions of people (whether it’s 50%+1 or not), and enough to determine the presidency, think that I, like Judge Gonzalo Curiel, will never be truly American by virtue of my heritage. That my immigrant wife is suspect. That my children are suspect. That we are permanent foreigners. It means that they’re not comfortable that people move here and don’t learn English. They’re not comfortable that food that I love smells and looks disgusting and, oh my god, is that a duck head on the plate? It means that millions of people who I thought never questioned the fact that I was just as American as them think that Asians study too much, steal their jobs, and make life worse for Americans, and that maybe they feel a twinge of loyalty to China or wherever else they come from. It means that we’re not in this together. America for Americans, and that means not you, Justin.

There are probably Trump supporters who will feel joy that I finally got the message, but I hope there are more who feel at least a little empathy and see why a Trump presidency will be so painful for so many.

And there are millions of Americans who rejected Trump’s message. George W. Bush was a decent man. He told us that Islam was a religion of peace and said that we’re “a nation of immigrants, and we must uphold that tradition, which has strengthened our country in so many ways.” My congressman growing up was Ed Royce, and he would come to Chinese New Year’s celebrations and engaged with and supported the Asian-American community in his district. He is a Republican, and he said he would vote for Trump, so I don’t know what to think anymore. And millions of people voted for Hillary Clinton because they accept that inclusiveness has value, civility has value, and that one of America’s greatest strengths was that we are not a racial monolith, but that we can welcome and learn from people from every religion, ethnicity and culture. So I’m not giving up, but this is a low point for me when I think about the prospects for our country and for my children. It’s like no other political event I’ve experienced.

My heart is breaking not because I think Trump will fail to defend our NATO allies, authorize war crimes, succeed in establishing a deportation force to destroy families, or erode the First Amendment as he’s suggested. My heart is breaking because my countrymen are telling me, unmistakably, that the American dream is not for people like me.

staryngt · Post by **staryngt** » 2016-11-09 11:07

豪情 wrote:
Knowing wrote:我周围的男性也相当震惊失望，但是跟我的伤心是不一样的。我们共勉吧，每个工作女性都有砸玻璃天花板的责任，不然还等男人来替我们砸么。
湾区现在wimen in engineering非常活跃，我绝对是受益者。不能说都是靠我自己奋斗。所以更加要团结起来.

一定要团结起来。我觉得people who claim they're independent or democratic and look at flaws of Hillary through magnifying glasses instead of looking at fundamental wrongs of trump elected a racist, sexist person to be the next president. It's quite similar to how hitler got power. 就是progressives 不够团结。

dropby · Post by **dropby** » 2016-11-09 11:22

我觉得民调和最后结果有那么大的误差，是因为很多人不好意思说自己支持川普，尤其是女性，支持这么一个人可能自己也觉得不好意思吧。我混的微信群里，有特别鸡血挺川普的，但也有一个全是女生而且大家都很熟的群，静悄悄地很少谈政治。川普一当选全部冒出来弹冠相庆，都是川普支持者。大选刚开始就说有很多衣柜里的挺川派，我觉得是真的。

至于说美国是一个什么样的国家，我觉得假装在纽约说得挺对：

是的，川普胜利了，但真实的世界就是这个样子啊

幻儿 · Post by 幻儿 » 2016-11-09 11:38

那个文大部分没有说错，但也太马后炮了！而且真实的世界什么样那段，地域分别，年龄分别，族裔分别，受教育程度分别，在美国也不是2016年才这样，至少在克林顿时代就这样了，可克林顿奥巴马也都选上总统了呀。
作者说：“对于美国大选的结果，我不评论好坏，我只想说同一句话：这就是真实的世界。是的，世界就是这个样子，接受它，live with it。”
No way! 我不打算消极的live with 这个选出trump的世界。它必须改变，也一定会改变。我会为之努力。

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 11:42

唯一说对的就是社交平台代替媒体。

dropby · Post by **dropby** » 2016-11-09 11:54

我今天早上起床后在微信上看到的第一条信息是：

Winter is coming
Night is long and full of terror

假装在纽约的最后一句话也是：但在太阳升起之前，先要度过慢慢的长夜。

所以还是得先live with it啊。

克里斯汀 · Post by **克里斯汀** » 2016-11-09 12:09

豪情 wrote:
Knowing wrote:别这么说，他们还是原来的那些人，川普胜利前就是川粉。我不看就是了。
美国人民得到他们想要的总统，我一边呆着凉快去吧。有mobility的同学，我劝你们别太绝望了，搬个家避避风头，眼不见为净，四年八年很快就过去。等美国重归伟大你们再回来。
你肯定任上不会对内制造witch hunt, 对外发动战争, 利用民众的恐惧投票集权吗？希特勒这么做的，小布什也这么做的。

不能更同意。瞧瞧小布什干了什么，现在的乱局都是他种下的因。
我遭受到极大的打击，是因为我根本没想到过川普会赢。还跟良人开玩笑川普成就了希拉里，她会当选是因为大家讨厌川普，没想到是反过来。。。。。

dropby · Post by **dropby** » 2016-11-09 12:09

另外我想说克林顿时代和奥巴马上台的时代和现在的时代已经很不一样了。就是因为世界变化得很快，所以四年前和四年后很多人的想法都会改变。

ooliver · Post by **ooliver** » 2016-11-09 12:12

潜水员冒出来给Knowing点个赞。

Elysees · Post by **Elysees** » 2016-11-09 12:24

昨天结果还没有最终出来usa today就有新闻说， how can the poll be so off。我质问贵人，这到底是怎么回事，数据居然完全不对！
整个打破我对数据的信心。好吧，也许人们说的google knows me better并不对。

Jun · Post by **Jun** » 2016-11-09 12:28

dropby wrote:另外我想说克林顿时代和奥巴马上台的时代和现在的时代已经很不一样了。就是因为世界变化得很快，所以四年前和四年后很多人的想法都会改变。

才不是，现在的极右派都是适应不了新形势的老派白人，习惯了纯正的雪雪白的社区。克林顿时代刚刚是 Anita Hill 性骚扰事件之后，现在看看简直没有变化，恶心的男人毕竟是男人，仍然得到主流支持。奥巴马为什么会上台，一大原因是小布什打不完仗还把经济搞垮了。

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 12:28

也许用search的群体和用微信twitterFB的群体完全不同。

豪情 · Post by 豪情 » 2016-11-09 12:29

Jun wrote:
dropby wrote:另外我想说克林顿时代和奥巴马上台的时代和现在的时代已经很不一样了。就是因为世界变化得很快，所以四年前和四年后很多人的想法都会改变。
才不是，现在的极右派都是适应不了新形势的老派白人，习惯了纯正的雪雪白的社区。克林顿时代刚刚是 Anita Hill 性骚扰事件之后，现在看看简直没有变化，恶心的男人毕竟是男人，仍然得到主流支持。奥巴马为什么会上台，一大原因是小布什打不完仗还把经济搞垮了。

小布什为啥会上台，全球化没有惠及所有人，红脖子不干了。

dropby · Post by **dropby** » 2016-11-09 12:38

Jun wrote:
dropby wrote:另外我想说克林顿时代和奥巴马上台的时代和现在的时代已经很不一样了。就是因为世界变化得很快，所以四年前和四年后很多人的想法都会改变。
才不是，现在的极右派都是适应不了新形势的老派白人，习惯了纯正的雪雪白的社区。克林顿时代刚刚是 Anita Hill 性骚扰事件之后，现在看看简直没有变化，恶心的男人毕竟是男人，仍然得到主流支持。奥巴马为什么会上台，一大原因是小布什打不完仗还把经济搞垮了。

还是有变化呀。克林顿时代你能想象一个女性总统候选人能得到更多的popular votes吗？

我是觉得世界还是变得很快的，有好的变化，也有坏的变化。从历史来看，只要不毁灭，人类总会浴火新生迎来更好的时代。我只是希望个人的代价不会太巨大。

Elysees · Post by **Elysees** » 2016-11-09 12:45

我的FB上已经有Warren/ Sanders 2020了。
一方面我觉得很难过，可是早上起来看到FB上和谷里大家的话又觉得受鼓舞，大家都没有放弃，很多人都在写怎么应对这个结果，如何跟你孩子谈话。我今早没有准备好，给安宝说这个坏消息的时候有点哭了。晚上我一定整理情绪好好再说。
早上听Tim Cain和HRC的讲话很为他们难过，they fought so hard。
我除了关了微信朋友圈也把几个班级群也关了挪到最下面，把华人的app整个删了。以后好好工作好好学习好好读书。
幸好总统只有四年任期。

staryngt · Post by **staryngt** » 2016-11-09 12:49

Elysees wrote:昨天结果还没有最终出来usa today就有新闻说， how can the poll be so off。我质问贵人，这到底是怎么回事，数据居然完全不对！
整个打破我对数据的信心。好吧，也许人们说的google knows me better并不对。

处理数据要很客观才行。很多人处理数据只是想validate已有的假设。

april · Post by **april** » 2016-11-09 12:50

真的只有四年吗？我还记得小布什当选时自己的愤恨，当时就想还好就四年，结果。。。
All it took was one 911...

mirrorflower · Post by **mirrorflower** » 2016-11-09 13:01

staryngt wrote:
Elysees wrote:昨天结果还没有最终出来usa today就有新闻说， how can the poll be so off。我质问贵人，这到底是怎么回事，数据居然完全不对！
整个打破我对数据的信心。好吧，也许人们说的google knows me better并不对。
处理数据要很客观才行。很多人处理数据只是想validate已有的假设。

我倒觉得这次不一定是处理数据出了问题，而是收集到的poll的数据本身就有bias.

甚至昨天一开始的exit poll,都显示希拉里比选前更有机会赢。要么就是polling的手段大有问题，要么就是床铺voter很多人太深柜了。或者both.

我觉得很难过，很麻木——有的片段突然觉得很难过，其他之外就是麻木不想说话。这种感觉即便是也很反对床铺的伴侣也是肯定无法体会的。

人和人是如此不同。我不觉得选床铺的人都不在乎性别或种族歧视，或者不讨厌他这个人。但是人和人最看重的东西肯定不一样，境地也不一样。所以能怎么着呢，只能自己为自己最在乎的东西fight.

dropby · Post by **dropby** » 2016-11-09 13:12

这篇文章中有一句话我是很赞同的，川普充其量是症状（symptom），而不是疾病（disease）本身。

对川普的厌恶，让人们看不到世界的复杂性

所以其实前两天以为希拉里能胜选的时候我已经在焦虑了。川普当选，当然极大地加深了这个焦虑。不过即使希拉里胜选，疾病本身还在。

我只能希望川普上台不会把这个疾病进一步搞成绝症。